Caring with Compassion
Fierce Compassion
With an understanding of fierce compassion, we can express compassion for the "enemy," being both firm and kind. According to a yoga virtue called "Ahimsa," which means to live in non-violence through one's actions, words and thoughts, those who do not live in non-violence live in their own "moral abyss."
Perhaps, then, rather than "hating" the enemy, we can practice fierce compassion, doing our sometimes difficult but necessary work with Ahimsa in mind.